If a student gets waitlisted by a college she loved but has other good options of schools who said yes, I’ve got no problem with her telling the college to shove their waitlist and preparing to commit to a school that’s ready to commit to her.
Don’t be rash (this is a big decision). And don’t do it without talking it over with your parents and counselor. But declining a spot on a waitlist can be a good idea if you’re ready to…
…remove the unknown and focus on real options.
…plan visits to schools you know you could attend.
…feel rewarded for your hard work by a school who wants you.
…secure your financial aid (students who get admitted off waitlists often find there’s no financial aid left).
…be officially done with the college application process.
…know where you’ll be attending college next fall.
…proudly buy and wear the sweatshirt of your new school.